Tuesday, March 15, 2016

The Ides of March...came yesterday

All I can say is this.  After FINALLY getting the floors refinished at my Center (which took 2 years to get around to) the Big Boss came by yesterday.   I knew it wasn't to inspect...because before his promotion to Top Dog, he was my boss, the one who hired me for this position.  I recognized behind the small talk (and photos of his first grand baby, who was cute, so I didn't have to exaggerate) there was SOMETHING ELSE.

After years of having to work part time to help another Center (8 to be exact), being "displaced" for 18 months for our Center to be renovated (the Inmates who worked there had it better than me) and finally getting the floors done, I thought maybe I could finally work in peace.

*Insert dramatic music here*

The Big Boss came by to let me know someone has made an offer on our building and land.  And they will probably take it.

Et tu, Brute?


*That sound you hear is my heart breaking before it hits the ground*.

I'm not sad at the possible (because no contract has been signed yet) loss of this historic building.  I'm not upset because seniors don't like change and this won't sit well when it hits the fan.  I'm not even worried about my job, because I was actually given the opportunity for input on a possible new home.  No, the truth is...

I'm tired.  

Tired of going the extra mile, doing the extra work, turning projects in on time, always being asked to do more because I am dependable...while my co-workers simply show up and work if they feel like it.  I feel as if I'm in a hell of my own choosing and have lost the key to my cell.  Even the Big Boss was shocked to realize that in May, I will have worked for my employer for 29 years...meaning I could've retired last year, but they don't pay me enough to do that.  The truth is, working in local government, even with a college degree, doesn't mean bringing home a paycheck on the Federal Government level.  The first thing cut was Merit raises, meaning no matter how well I do, someone may yell "Thanks!" before handing me another project, but that's it.  I topped out of my salary range a few years ago and trust me, 2% cost of living raises might've been helpful in 1930, but not today.

I'm at that "awkward" age: too long where I've been and not quite close enough to retirement age.  So what do I do?

Probably what I always do.  Encoded in my DNA is the need to do the right thing, even when it isn't the easy thing.  I will try to find the silver lining, or a rainbow or something corny to remind me that this little bump in the road is just that...a bump.  One that doesn't even require a band aid.

But should you see me on the road, you might want to just keep on driving if you see me yelling at the top of my lungs that life, at times, can suck.

If we're both lucky, you'll just see me singing along to whatever's playing on my radio in the comfortable sanctuary of my car...where I'm actually in control, for a little while. 

5 comments:

Ponita in Real Life said...

I hear ya, Hope. Life does suck at times and especially for those of us who *do* go above and beyond without the financial recognition that would keep us (more) happily doing the extra that we feel we must do. I have taken extra courses in wound care, and get pulled all over my nursing unit to assess wounds and recommend dressing regimes, and sometimes to even have a go at cleaning them up, but I get no recompense for that. I have received no official thanks from my employer, not even a thank you for the extra work. I do it because it helps the patients, because they need someone to take care of those wounds quickly and properly. I am tired too. Although I get paid well as a nurse, and I will be retiring in 2 years with a decent pension, I will probably still have to work a little bit for a few years after retirement to make sure that pension lasts. I wish I could wave a magic wand and give you what you need: a good salary, helpful coworkers, and less work! xoxo

hope said...

Ponita: thanks, I needed that. Especially as I'm about to walk out the door to a Staff Meeting where I have to take Minutes....because one of the co-workers wasn't listening and now my record is "officially" what happens. Sigh. I even mentioned off hand to my new boss (who I've known for over 20 years) that it feels as if I'm being punished for doing my job. He sighed, nodded and said something to the effect that given the level of pay our department offers, we don't have a lot to chose from for employees. He then looked embarrassed because when we started, only he, our boss and myself had college degrees. Such is life.

maurcheen said...

You know what to listen to in the car?😊
XXX

maurcheen said...

You know what to listen to in the car?😊
XXX

hope said...

"You've Got A Friend"....and I do. :)

I also like your version better.